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高質(zhì)量的陪伴，是父母用心參與孩子成長(zhǎng)

出處：網(wǎng)絡(luò)收集日期：2024-08-31 00:31:45編輯：胖虎愛(ài)撩妹
很多父母，生了孩子以后，總有一方會(huì)全職在家?guī)殞?。父母都?huì)說(shuō)，自己是在陪伴孩子，但是你想想，你真的是高質(zhì)量陪伴孩子嗎？
 
幾乎每年都會(huì)有報(bào)道，孩子摔下樓梯、跌落滑梯、被車撞傷或者落水等，而父母就在旁邊玩手機(jī)。父母這種低質(zhì)量的陪伴，還不如沒(méi)有陪伴。有多少父母，只是在孩子身邊，沒(méi)有交流，各做各的事情，就像兩個(gè)形婚的男女，只有形式，卻沒(méi)有溝通。
 
只是呆在孩子身邊做自己的事情而已，那是最低質(zhì)量的陪伴。那么父母該如何高質(zhì)量陪伴孩子呢？
 
 
 
01參與孩子的玩耍
 
很多父母陪伴孩子，就是讓孩子自己寫(xiě)作業(yè)，消磨時(shí)間，他們負(fù)責(zé)給孩子洗衣做飯，檢查作業(yè)。父母和孩子，就像流水上的工人，各司其職。
 
其實(shí)孩子要的不是你在身邊，而是要你陪自己聊天或者玩游戲，陪伴是互相溝通交流和玩耍。
 
《蠟筆小新》很多人都看過(guò)，蠟筆小新的成長(zhǎng)，幾乎每一步都有父母的參與，父母和他的親子時(shí)光，總是充滿了樂(lè)趣，也讓他快樂(lè)的成長(zhǎng)。
 
小新讓媽媽美伢陪他玩耍，媽媽想要睡覺(jué)，小新就吐槽媽媽是肥婆等。媽媽美伢覺(jué)得小新太頑皮了，想起來(lái)電視上說(shuō)“小孩子缺少關(guān)懷，就會(huì)做出一些偏差行為。”于是決定，以后要經(jīng)常陪小新玩游戲。
 
有一次游戲，媽媽美伢扮演邪惡又有魅力的美女俏妞，小新扮演救世主超人。媽媽帶著小新首先動(dòng)手做扮演角色的衣服，然后一起展開(kāi)游戲。
 
小新扮演動(dòng)的感超人在游戲中，警告俏妞不要把百貨大樓化妝品都拿光。媽媽美伢一想，那不就是自己平時(shí)行為嗎？原來(lái)臭小子還是很有想法和記憶的。兩人還討論游戲細(xì)節(jié)，玩的不亦樂(lè)乎。
 
這時(shí)候隔壁大嬸過(guò)來(lái)，美芽感覺(jué)好尷尬，但是親子時(shí)光卻過(guò)的很開(kāi)心。
 
當(dāng)家長(zhǎng)融入到孩子的角色中，完全忘記了自己行為有多幼稚，不再只是用大人的思想去考慮問(wèn)題，而是站在孩子的角度。
 
與孩子互動(dòng)，可以更好的了解小朋友的想法，讓孩子教你她的游戲，也是在提高孩子的表達(dá)能力。父母就是孩子最好的游戲，高質(zhì)量陪伴就是要參與到孩子的成長(zhǎng)。
 
 
02讓孩子參與你的事情
 
很多父母在家里做事，不愿意讓孩子參與。工作的時(shí)候怕孩子打擾，洗衣服的時(shí)候怕孩子把身上弄濕，共同做飯時(shí)怕孩子把衣服弄臟，總之各種保護(hù)之下，父母對(duì)孩子的唯一要求就是學(xué)習(xí)。
 
其實(shí)這種行為會(huì)讓孩子有種被排斥的感覺(jué)，與父母產(chǎn)生距離感。
 
堂姐家的女兒，今年9歲，堂姐在家陪伴時(shí)，做什么都會(huì)都讓女兒參與。
 
每天做家務(wù)的時(shí)候，堂姐會(huì)讓女兒一起收拾。每天一次衛(wèi)生，每周一次大掃除。不僅孩子參與，還排了值日表，老公也有任務(wù)。比如，周一周三老公休息，老公做的家務(wù)多，周末兩天，女兒做的多。周三到周五她做的多。
 
堂姐做了明確的分工，比如周末，女兒拖房間地面，堂姐負(fù)責(zé)廚房陽(yáng)臺(tái)衛(wèi)生間還有客廳。晚上要一起給家人至少做三個(gè)菜。媽媽做的菜，女兒要負(fù)責(zé)點(diǎn)評(píng)打分，女兒做的菜，爸爸也要打分。
 
堂姐還會(huì)在處理工作的時(shí)候，會(huì)征求女兒一些意見(jiàn)。比如，她會(huì)問(wèn)女兒：“你覺(jué)得性格安靜的阿姨，會(huì)喜歡什么顏色的房子呀？我給她設(shè)計(jì)成黃色的墻面好不好看呢？”
 
女兒可能說(shuō)的不專業(yè)，只是隨口一說(shuō)，但是她都會(huì)耐心的夸贊，好像女兒幫她完成了工作任務(wù)一樣。
 
這就像我們平時(shí)和別人聊天，其實(shí)我們有自己的主意，就是想隨口吐槽式咨詢一下而已。
 
讓孩子參與到父母正在做的事情中，不僅可以跟孩子互動(dòng)，彼此了解，還可以樹(shù)立孩子的自信心，讓孩子和父母的關(guān)系更親近，讓陪伴變得更有質(zhì)量。
 
 
 
03一家人旅游
 
生活不僅有孩子和工作，還有詩(shī)和遠(yuǎn)方。父母要經(jīng)常帶孩子去旅游，不僅可以提高陪伴質(zhì)量，還可以開(kāi)拓眼界和愉悅心情。旅游不一定是很遠(yuǎn)的地方，也不一定就是動(dòng)物園或者游樂(lè)場(chǎng)，還有很多有意思的地方。
 
同事香香就經(jīng)常帶孩子去各種好玩的地方。沒(méi)有疫情的時(shí)候，她會(huì)帶著孩子去某個(gè)不太出名的山上撿樹(shù)枝或者某個(gè)花?？椿?。而今年，他們除了去各種園林，就是去周邊的鄉(xiāng)下采摘種地。
 
有一次，他們計(jì)劃去做一頓野餐。那天她和老公，帶著孩子去挖薺菜。
 
農(nóng)民說(shuō)附近的麥地里有薺菜。首先他們要征得農(nóng)民同意，可是找了半天不知道都是誰(shuí)的麥田。
 
路過(guò)的農(nóng)家人告訴他們，挖薺菜可以踩到麥子，只要不給踩壞，小心注意一點(diǎn)不要亂踏就好，麥子輕輕踩過(guò)風(fēng)一吹就可以樹(shù)起來(lái)的。
 
于是他們一家人經(jīng)歷從膽戰(zhàn)心驚的進(jìn)入麥田，怕被抓的驚險(xiǎn)，到找到第一顆薺菜的興奮。香香說(shuō)，那種感覺(jué)仿佛到了自己小時(shí)候，在田野上追蒲公英的日子。
 
旅游，很多時(shí)候是孩子都期待的禮物。一家人踏上征途是最好的親子方法，也是父母最快跟孩子互相溝通與了解的方式。
 
寫(xiě)在最后
 
別把你的親子時(shí)間給了手機(jī)，而要把時(shí)間用來(lái)和孩子互動(dòng)。只有高質(zhì)量的陪伴，孩子才能感受到更多的關(guān)懷和愛(ài)。
 
愿我們每個(gè)家長(zhǎng)，都可以高質(zhì)量的陪伴孩子，參與到孩子的成長(zhǎng)中去，讓孩子過(guò)得健康而又快樂(lè)。

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